Greetings,
In a slow pace I am moving forward with integration of GTD into my routine. The "collection" process works fine - nothing goes unnoticed, and everything gets organized into projects and actions and contexts. To be honest, this is where I've stuck. I can "review" as much as I want, but the actual "acting" is dictated by others. I know it's totally my fault - even armed with GTD technology I am not able to get in control.
The problem is, I am not able to give a honest answer to the question "When can you do it?".
With all my neatly organized lists that are not tied up to a "hard landscape" calendar, I have no clue what I'll be doing on a certain date and when it will be done.
I've tried to analyze the pattern of the last few weeks:
So as I result, the deadlines are dictated by the others. You can say - maybe it's the nature of your work? Well, partly yes of course - I am self-employed (web)developer. But I am sure that I could take control of at least 50% of the situations if I had a clear view of the schedule ahead. And the only way I can see right now to accomplish it, is scheduling everything. And this is sooo non-GTD.
Help?
In a slow pace I am moving forward with integration of GTD into my routine. The "collection" process works fine - nothing goes unnoticed, and everything gets organized into projects and actions and contexts. To be honest, this is where I've stuck. I can "review" as much as I want, but the actual "acting" is dictated by others. I know it's totally my fault - even armed with GTD technology I am not able to get in control.
The problem is, I am not able to give a honest answer to the question "When can you do it?".
With all my neatly organized lists that are not tied up to a "hard landscape" calendar, I have no clue what I'll be doing on a certain date and when it will be done.
I've tried to analyze the pattern of the last few weeks:
- I organize my projects and tasks. Following GTD philosophy I am not putting things on the hard landscape calendar. Except for a few things that somebody has been waiting for for a long time and that really should be done soon; so I schedule them to be first on my list.
- So I am starting to work on those things that can't wait, and than I am getting request from another people to finish tasks that they are being waiting for. I feel guilty (the other task has been on the list for a while too), so I schedule that to be the next.
- During work, I get some new questions / requests. There are 3 types of request:
a) the request does not contain a due / wish date. My answer is than like "ok, I'll look at it". Most of the time the person responds with the b) request.
b) the request contain a question "WHEN". My first answer is a date as far as possible ahead. Usually it's not an option, so the follow up is the type c) request with that person's due / wish date.
c) the request does contain a due date / whishdate. I look at my lists, push things without a due date back, and find the closest possible space for the requested due date. - Everything repeats.
So as I result, the deadlines are dictated by the others. You can say - maybe it's the nature of your work? Well, partly yes of course - I am self-employed (web)developer. But I am sure that I could take control of at least 50% of the situations if I had a clear view of the schedule ahead. And the only way I can see right now to accomplish it, is scheduling everything. And this is sooo non-GTD.
Help?