I totally understand what you're saying, Tiffany!
There are a couple of things I've started doing that have helped:
First, I used to dump all of the mail right in my inbox. Now, I dump it on the kitchen counter, sort it between family members, and open
everything...
before it goes into the inbox. I chuck out all the non-essential stuff and keep only what I need. I dump catalogs and other things that, in the past, I would have like to have read through, but now I know they just sit around gathering dust until they're out of date anyway... so out they go, too.
Any bills go immediately into my "Personal Bills" or "Business Bills" folders for payment later in the month. Anything to file goes in my "To File" stack (that someday I'll get to...
... I'm a little backlogged... but they
don't go in my inbox). Everything else - often only a piece or two - goes into my inbox. Whew!
Second, I'll often pull the entire contents of my inbox, take it into another room (with my goodie bag of paperclips, stapler, pens, etc.) and process it there. The change in venue changes my attitude about it. There's a good chance I've been sitting at my desk too long and mentally I'm repulsed by my inbox.... but... ooooh... there's sunshine and a pot of tea waiting over there! I'm a big believer in changing venues... especially for weekly reviews, by the way.
And, finally, I've been listening to the Three-fold Nature of Work podcast with Julie Ireland. In it, Julie mentions it takes her about an hour and a half a day for "defining work"... and an hour of emptying your inbox sounds in line with that estimate.
I know sometimes it sucks. Can't say it doesn't, but I
can say that the suckage is sooooo much worse on the second and third days of not processing your inbox.
Happy emptying!
Dena