1. I'm utilizing the system for over a year now and when i first began i did it leisurely. As months progressed I got super serious about all of this, making the change for me and my piece of mine. The first people to notice a change within me and 1st seeing my system was my family. They'd stop by my place and see the one messy home a spotless, vacuumed sanctuary. From a guy that once procrastinated on doing any neccessary paper work, they noticed my filing system for all my documents and also the storage system i created for all the little aspects around the home; some of which included: clothing closet system which allowed me organize and be aware of all my clothes,
unconsciously perhaps, allowing me to keep abreast on my fashion sense (All for the sake of girls, am i right?
) Tool system, Health system which consisted of medical supplies and other neccessities such as extra hygine supplies unavailable at 2:30am(gotta be prepared), among other things. My car was always clean, as i created a reoccurring project to clean my car, check the tires, etc..
My folks 1st thought it wasn't gonna last, seeing as they always considered me to be the lazy slouch. But after 5 months of having a great looking apartment they were impressed. Of course I did this for me, and for you, should be the only person you're doing any of this for.
My friends at University thought I was psycho taking out my contexts' list...
At first i admit i was somewhat self conscious about it...but then realized no one knew what the hell the list was, excpet for close friends that i explained it to. Admittedly, some thought I was too organized, as they asked why I needed to have a list of the things i needed to get done. I would explain the DA example of how ppl naturally feel better after they write down a quick to-do list and why it makes them feel better...but i mainly explained the DA example of how our brain does not have one...and how if our mind had a mind we wouldn't need an oganization system.
As time progressed, I could give a sh*t was others thought. I had a busy semester at University this Fall and getting things done on a daily basis was enough motivation for me.
I was eloquently surprised a few weeks ago when I was explaining to a new friend that I was stressing out over finals. I told him I hadn't studied and had a huge headache over not being on top of my game (which i the time I specifically meant that
I wasn't getting a lot of my NA's touched. He surprised me by telling me that I didn't look stressed and that I was most collected person he knew. He said it seems I'm the one person he knows that gets a lot done on a daily reoccurring basis and that kinda reminded me of the times b4 GTD where I was productive at all. It just seems I'm now trying to get everything done in a day, when realistically it was stressing me out.
Who cares what others think of your system if they see it. Some will be impressed, others will consider you a geek. Embrace it all, or better yet just dont care. You're doing all this for you: if it works in your favor then keep at it, if not then move on to the next thing that might.
2. As for the system. The 43 folder tickler system did not work for me too well. I'm not sure how long you've been at this but as time progresses you'll be place in situations where you'll learn more about yourself and your system and how you interact with it. Its a learning process that in time places you with an advantage. In no way am I the same person back in Dec. 2008. My system is now computer based rather than paper based. My weekly reviews take 1 hour rather than 5, honestly. I'm more productive and you will be too.
You'll be placed with unique challenges. Tackle them head on to learn how GTD be fits you. I won't get into it now as this post is dragging on but I knew a long time ago my GTD would have to be completely mobile, i.e. as in one day i'm moving to China and the next month i'm temporarilly living in Chicago, whilst returning back to Los Angeles by Thanksgiving....without missing a beat in my GTD system. Sure enough, close situations have occurred. My gtd system is at the point where i'm 5 minutes from packing up everything I need to continue to be productive...anywhere. I've used it once, and as stated above....I have having to set up my system all over again. I hate setting up my foundation all over again.
It's all a learning process that never stops. Embrace.