thanks from the next generation
David and associates,
I have been using your methods for a few years now, and it has made a huge difference in my sanity. I could echo what everyone else has said, but I have something additional to add. My 15-year-old's grades were in a downward spiral. He is bright, but unfocused. I tried GTD full blown on him a year ago, and it didn't take. I tried again 3 months ago with a highly simplified version, and it took.
Last night he told me that he didn't get it at first, and was just going along with it, but now he understood. He welcomes the reviews and the empty head it gives him. He welcomes the fact that he knows what he has to do -- all of it. His Latin teacher expressed amazement at the pile of work he turned in, and he was one of only 7 in a class of 25 that got his English book report turned in on time. That is the reward and the motivation for him. He still has the same amount of work, but now it doesn't intimidate him. It never seems bigger than it really is anymore. He goes out with friends with no gnawing sense of anxiety. The light in his eyes is why I am writing to express our deepest thanks for the gift your have given us. Your work has moved you well beyond success and into significance. Your legacy is all around, and growing everyday. Thank you.
For those interested, these are the parts of GTD my son uses. I do it
with him, and are committed to doing that until it becomes his own habit.
1) One sheet of paper that contains 3 lists: Projects, Next Actions
and Waiting For... (updated on computer and printed out)
2) One sheet of paper that contains his Someday/Maybe list
3) A paper calendar supplied by the school. He folds his lists in half
and uses them as a marker for this week in the calendar.
4) A daily review. We started doing it weekly, but too much was getting missed. The daily only takes 5-10 minutes (usually 5), and it gives him that squeeky-clean, empty-head, clear-vision feeling that is so rewarding.
Once we are done, I then back way off. As I tell him, he now knows what he has to do. I trust him to make his own choices with that info. He called me today to tell me he was done with his homework, and was going sledding. I can just picture his face. He is caught up and in charge, and he knows it. He will be sledding with nothing else on his mind. What a great feeling, and he owes it all to a man he has never met. Thanks again.