My oh my! I didn't realize what an interesting conversation I'd be starting when I posted my seemingly simple question! Thanks so much for all these replies. They gave me a lot to think about. I had the much-awaited day-off yesterday and thought it might be a good idea to circle back around and tell how the day went and what I learned.
This has been such a landmark 12 months for me, so taking some time to do this was especially valuable. To put it mildly, my life looks quite different than it did a year ago. During the past year I had my second baby (in late spring actually - just thrilling), managed working full time plus motherhood (challenging), dealt with an increased work load while being down one key staff person for a good part of the year (stretching), sold a home and bought another home (rewarding), my husband was diagnosed and treated for prostate cancer (frightening) and my then two year old daughter was diagnosed with autism (devastating). It's been wild - so slowing down to get some perspective was great.
Here are some random thoughts -
1) I did take the advice of using
Your Best Year Yet. It isn't the kind of book I would ordinarily buy, but the questions she uses provided a nice structure for what I was wanting to do. She has great clarifying questions. So thank you for the recommendations. I think it would be interesting to develop my own set of personal questions to use each year.
2) Best Year Yet recommneds looking back over your past year and reflecting on your accomplishments/dissapointments. Somewhere along the line, I remember DA saying something the similar.
Don't throw away your projects list!! I printed a list of projects that I'd completed during this time frame and it was very, very powerful to read through them. I came away profoundly grateful for getting through some tough things fairly intact, but also with a more clear picture of what areas of my life need more attention.
3) I took the advice about getting out of my usual routine and spent the morning in a part of the city I had never visited. I just "happened upon" the perfect little cafe where I could sit by a window and look out onto a fountain, eat breakfast and write. This was great for the more big picture, reflective, creative thinking - it kinda shook things up - and it was fun!
4) I found however, that when it came time in the afternoon to organize these thoughts into more concrete actions, I instinctively wanted to head home. I wanted to be able to kick off my shoes, use my computer, play music of my own choosing and not be distracted by things/people coming in and out of my environment. I tried going to a coffee shop in the afternoon and that just didn't work - too many conversations going on too close to me.
5) Looking back over all that had happened made me realize more fully the value of the weekly review. Any one of the things I mentioned that happened over the past year had the power to be completely all consuming - and of necessity, there were times when I had to put a lot of focus in certain areas and let other areas slide. However, the weekly review kept reminding me on a consistent basis of all that I am am committed to so that I didn't get sucked too far into just getting run over by these things.
6) My major mistake - I tried to cram too much into one day...I wanted to also make it an R&R day, so I scheduled a massage at the beginning of the day and getting my nails done at the end....a treat like that is great, but one of those things would have been plenty. I was actually really tired when the day was over. Doing something like this for downtime is a nice thing though - and I think best at the end of the day - going to the driving range and hitting a bucket of balls, whatever suits you to let your mind decompress. Basically, what I need is a good vacation - coming soon!
7) What I think I came away with is a much clearer understanding about what is important to me and what part of my life needs to most focus along with a few solid, actionable ideas that I think will make a difference. I'll pop them into my projects, next actions and weekly review checklist and see how it turns out!
In short, it was extremely valuable, and I intend to make it an annual event (got it written down

).