I recently read these two articles about not setting goals. Intriguing. What does everyone think? Do we spend too much time pursuing goals?
https://jamesclear.com/goals-systems
http://www.calmachiever.com/ditch-goals-for-happiness/
I find myself agreeing with this, while still being a bit unsure about what it means in specific cases. I think that what I'm seeing as missing in the traditional goal-based approach, and more supported in a process-based approach, is discovery and what I'd call debugging. It's hard to debug a goal--it's out there somewhere. But you're inside a process, day by day, so you can debug it.
I'm going to rattle on with an example. It's so long that I don't know if anyone will read it.
I'd like to be a traditionally published fiction writer. Not a best-selling writer, but one of those many authors who still get most of their income from a day job.
I could set a goal of, say, "have first book published by year end 2022", but that's a silly goal, at least for me. The landscape of events and unknowns is just too big. Slapping a specific date on a specific goal has the effect of reducing flexibility without adding anything. (It may add something for other people who are motivated by dates. That's not me.) And--and this is not necessarily true of other people's goals--it's not necessarily an achievable goal. I may never have the combination of talent and skill to be a traditionally publishable fiction writer.
So there was a discovery step to seeing the slightly (only slightly) more immediate focus, which I might state as, "Take actions that might tend to help me determine whether I'm capable of writing publication-quality fiction." Yes, it's a waffling goal/focus/whatever. That's by design.
For that, I created a general guideline for a process: "Write a million words of fiction and then stop and look around."
As a start on that, I created a process for a minimal start: Write 300 words of fiction a day. Whatever fiction you want. Just do it. It's not much, but start there, and when that habit is well-established, in maybe a month or two, move on to the next step, which will probably be more words per day.
The habit wasn't established in a month or two. It wasn't established in a year. I would go three or four days writing, then several days not writing a word (of fiction), then back. But the process put me in the context of fiction writing, regularly, and that gave me the opportunity to discover the problems with me writing fiction. It gave me a process to debug.
And the main "bug" was that I didn't enjoy writing fiction--at all. I enjoyed having written it. And I know me; if no one's paying me, I simply won't engage in an activity if I never get enjoyment from the activity. It doesn't matter how much enjoyment I get from the product.
So I needed to debug the process by finding a way to enjoy writing fiction. Not to enjoy every minute, but to enjoy it with the interested absorption of gardening--good parts, bad parts, parts where you want to throw things through a window, but with an internal drive to keep going.
And I found a way. I won't go into detail (not that it's a secret, it just doesn't seem relevant and much of my post is already irrelevant), but my point is that I believe that the process of "write 300 words of fiction a day" got me to that point by immersing me into a context that offered many opportunities for discovery. That big goal out there in the distance, a goal that would appear to be served by a bunch of different activities that I could distract myself with, wouldn't have gotten me there. The process did.
The original process didn't go as expected--I thought I'd go on with words-per-day goals until I got to that million words. (Three years at a thousand words a day--not so much.) But the process got me to a discovery, and now writing fiction does have that internal drive for me.
And in debugging the process, I not only solved the problem of "I don't enjoy writing fiction." Much to my surprise, the "fix" for that problem also solved the problem of my leaping from project to project, and much of my problem with plotting, and it made my fiction arguably much better. I have one project that is progressing nicely and that I find absorbing.
Now I have a new process--now it's "write at least one new scene on the novel every two days". I'm still regularly absorbed in the context of fiction writing, and right now I'm learning things and accomplishing things in that context. The process is serving me right now.
I have a measure--not a goal--of noting whether I've finished a first draft by April 1, 2018. At that point, if I haven't, I'll observe: Is the novel still making perceptible progress, so that that date was just a wrong guess? Or has progress stopped, suggesting that this process is no longer the right one? If it's stopped, I'll debug the process again.
At that point I may or may not also decide whether my goal (there's that word) for this novel is eventual publication, or if it's just an exercise in writing and polishing a novel-length fictional work. But my actions are essentially the same either way, so I don't need to decide.
So I've made a lot of progress on what would look like a goal if I took the time to look overhead, but I'm not going to, because I got to that point not by looking at a future goal, but a present process.