The answer to the "coupon slave" argument is to only clip the coupons that you actually intend to use. And if you actually plan to use something, you need to have a plan for how to use it.
If it's a grocery coupon, plan to look through them to see if any match when you go to that store. If it's an oil change coupon, put it in your tickler for around the time that you'll need your next oil change. You can have "maybe" coupons in these categories - your plan is simply that you will review them at a time you might use them.
Take Netflix, for example. We pay a monthly fee to rent two movies, one at a time, every month. We enjoy movies, but we don't see them as often as we would like, so this is our method of making sure we take time to do things we enjoy. When we have a movie in the house, it's on our to-do list or (better yet) scheduled for a specific time (like Friday night). Then I make sure that we watch our two movies every month.
So if you have a coupon for a movie, make plans for when you're going to use it rather than trying to remember you have it when you decide you want to see a movie. Have it on your list of things to do, even if you don't necessarily do them this week. Include the expiration date on your to do list so you can make sure you are aware of when it expires and thus can consciously decide not to use it.
Those would be my suggestions.