The time involved in searching for clean clothes in the many baskets or on the floor of your laundry room and then not even knowing if the items are clean, must seem eternal. Alternately, the costs associated in getting new clothes that you can wear must be rather high. I can see your frustration.
The steps I would take are this:
1. buy 2 hampers - one for your and only your dirty clothes; one for your and only your clean clothes. Get hampers that you can put locks on if necessary. Each hamper gets a large sticker with your name on them, so they can't be mixed up with his.
2. separate all of your clothes from the piles and from the floor in the laundry room. Don't do anything with his clothes, since he doesn't like what you do with them anyhow.
3. put your clothes into a) the dirty hamper or b) the clean hamper
4. set a time frame where you can be there to monitor the washing and drying cycles of your clothes.
5. wash and dry your clothes and only your clothes. As you finish your loads, put them into your clean clothes hamper.
6. fold the clean clothes and put them away. fold them in any way you want: criss-cross, roll them up, be creative.
Unfortunately you will need to do this in one big timeframe, lest your clean clothes land on the floor again. Include any non-clothes items you use, such as sheets and towels. You can also wash anything of his if you like (it's your choice). Then just throw his cleanly washed clothes into one of his many hampers for him to fold using his method and his schedule. Meanwhile you are no longer affected by this.
Voila clean clothes for work or even for everyday living!
If he does anything more to hinder you... well, I can't help you there.
PS some of the steps come from the other posts. one can only be so innovative with laundry.
The steps I would take are this:
1. buy 2 hampers - one for your and only your dirty clothes; one for your and only your clean clothes. Get hampers that you can put locks on if necessary. Each hamper gets a large sticker with your name on them, so they can't be mixed up with his.
2. separate all of your clothes from the piles and from the floor in the laundry room. Don't do anything with his clothes, since he doesn't like what you do with them anyhow.
3. put your clothes into a) the dirty hamper or b) the clean hamper
4. set a time frame where you can be there to monitor the washing and drying cycles of your clothes.
5. wash and dry your clothes and only your clothes. As you finish your loads, put them into your clean clothes hamper.
6. fold the clean clothes and put them away. fold them in any way you want: criss-cross, roll them up, be creative.
Unfortunately you will need to do this in one big timeframe, lest your clean clothes land on the floor again. Include any non-clothes items you use, such as sheets and towels. You can also wash anything of his if you like (it's your choice). Then just throw his cleanly washed clothes into one of his many hampers for him to fold using his method and his schedule. Meanwhile you are no longer affected by this.
Voila clean clothes for work or even for everyday living!
If he does anything more to hinder you... well, I can't help you there.
PS some of the steps come from the other posts. one can only be so innovative with laundry.