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Here I'm is, the Zombie Woof
Just to be clear: When I said "what the heck I want" I was referring to the methodology by which I obey my wife
Interesting to hear that you have been using the Franklin-Covey method. And you've probably heard of, or been taught, several other methods as well. And I have been to all kinds of courses (leadership, business planning etc etc) where similar topics are often at least touched upon. And I have met people with gigantic calendars and their whole lives laid out like a corporate project plan. David Allen has that kind of background, too, and so do many GTD followers/supporters. And we have probably all experimented with lots of variations of setups. Maybe the likes of us think of many of our daily choices as a matter of "trusting our gut", "using our intuition" etc simply because we have long ago forgotten how we found the pros and cons of all the alternatives. But not everyone has this kind of trial-and-error or reflective or educated background. Some have "no background" at all except that they have found that their lives seem to have turned into a chaos, and they want clear, structured instructions. It simply is not a good enough instruction to tell an anxious student to "trust his gut". (Nor to say such things to colleagues with academic tendencies.)
bcmyers2112;112003 said:You may be surprised to learn I was a convert from the A-B-C/1-2-3 Franklin-Covey priority coding, daily-list-making, arbitrarily-scheduling-everything school.
Also, I don't do "what the heck I want" all the time. Sometimes I do things I have to but would rather not. I have a job. I have a boss. I'm practically married (I have been living with the same woman for nearly 12 years). In fact, I don't want to do laundry right now but if I don't when my girlfriend gets home it's going to be an issue. (Would that fall under @Home or @Hell Hath No Fury? If the latter isn't a context perhaps it should be.)
(I kid, I kid. My girlfriend's a sweetheart. Generally.)
Just to be clear: When I said "what the heck I want" I was referring to the methodology by which I obey my wife
Interesting to hear that you have been using the Franklin-Covey method. And you've probably heard of, or been taught, several other methods as well. And I have been to all kinds of courses (leadership, business planning etc etc) where similar topics are often at least touched upon. And I have met people with gigantic calendars and their whole lives laid out like a corporate project plan. David Allen has that kind of background, too, and so do many GTD followers/supporters. And we have probably all experimented with lots of variations of setups. Maybe the likes of us think of many of our daily choices as a matter of "trusting our gut", "using our intuition" etc simply because we have long ago forgotten how we found the pros and cons of all the alternatives. But not everyone has this kind of trial-and-error or reflective or educated background. Some have "no background" at all except that they have found that their lives seem to have turned into a chaos, and they want clear, structured instructions. It simply is not a good enough instruction to tell an anxious student to "trust his gut". (Nor to say such things to colleagues with academic tendencies.)