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tim99
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You have a very healthy attitude.
It is not correct to believe that everyone is like you, or that everyone else is a specific way. When people say that "everyone" gets angry at other drivers in traffic, they are just plain wrong. When people say that "all men" or "all women" or "all architects" are a specific way, they are just plain wrong.
When we realize that others are different from us, only then can we actually start to learn from them, because their opinions will be filtered by their own experience, attitude, and current mental health.
I have spent a lot of time and money on music. I have not read all the books I have bought cover to cover. I do not do all the things that people have recommended for me to do. I can not remember all the advice my teachers have given me. I am not where I want to be or where I expected to be after this time and effort, but I have improved, and am better than those who did not spend the time or money or effort.
Stay on the path. Focus. There are guys on the PGA tour who where not the best player on their college team. But they stuck with it. I asked a good golfer once what all the guys on tour had in common, and he said "work ethic, they are all willing to work hard for long periods of time, on one specific thing, with no visible improvement, and no outside encouragement."
It is not correct to believe that everyone is like you, or that everyone else is a specific way. When people say that "everyone" gets angry at other drivers in traffic, they are just plain wrong. When people say that "all men" or "all women" or "all architects" are a specific way, they are just plain wrong.
When we realize that others are different from us, only then can we actually start to learn from them, because their opinions will be filtered by their own experience, attitude, and current mental health.
I have spent a lot of time and money on music. I have not read all the books I have bought cover to cover. I do not do all the things that people have recommended for me to do. I can not remember all the advice my teachers have given me. I am not where I want to be or where I expected to be after this time and effort, but I have improved, and am better than those who did not spend the time or money or effort.
Stay on the path. Focus. There are guys on the PGA tour who where not the best player on their college team. But they stuck with it. I asked a good golfer once what all the guys on tour had in common, and he said "work ethic, they are all willing to work hard for long periods of time, on one specific thing, with no visible improvement, and no outside encouragement."