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mystery_man
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This may not be a legit GTD question, but I’ll give it a shot.
I’m obsessed with the world of pick-up. All my life I’ve been a loser when it comes to women. So when I decided to mend this aspect of my life, I stumbled across http://www.themysterymethod.com/forum
And since then, I’ve been stuck. I would read all the post and achieves. And I’d scour the internet for more. I’m not entirely neglecting all the other aspects of my life, because I still have other active projects I’m working on.
But the problem is pick-up has taken a huge chunk of my time. I’ve written down my priorities and areas of focus, so I know in theory what they are. And learning to pick-up isn’t more important than any of them.
But when it gets down to the actual doing, I’d find myself focusing more learning pick up. And other projects are not getting the focus that they deserve. It’s plain and simple wrong. And I know that. I just can’t get myself to extract from this obsession.
My guess is I’m overcompensating for my weakness. The hype would probably wear down in a few months, but I’m not sure.
I tried scheduling. But I would always lose track of time, probably because I’m INFJ. I’ve tried alarms but I’d just ignore them.
This is kind of embarrassing to post, but I’d really appreciate any advice.
I’m obsessed with the world of pick-up. All my life I’ve been a loser when it comes to women. So when I decided to mend this aspect of my life, I stumbled across http://www.themysterymethod.com/forum
And since then, I’ve been stuck. I would read all the post and achieves. And I’d scour the internet for more. I’m not entirely neglecting all the other aspects of my life, because I still have other active projects I’m working on.
But the problem is pick-up has taken a huge chunk of my time. I’ve written down my priorities and areas of focus, so I know in theory what they are. And learning to pick-up isn’t more important than any of them.
But when it gets down to the actual doing, I’d find myself focusing more learning pick up. And other projects are not getting the focus that they deserve. It’s plain and simple wrong. And I know that. I just can’t get myself to extract from this obsession.
My guess is I’m overcompensating for my weakness. The hype would probably wear down in a few months, but I’m not sure.
I tried scheduling. But I would always lose track of time, probably because I’m INFJ. I’ve tried alarms but I’d just ignore them.
This is kind of embarrassing to post, but I’d really appreciate any advice.