I'd like to follow up on what bcmyers2112 wrote. As a college professor, I have had some difficult discussions with young people when they wanted to discuss issues related to fertility and reproduction. Unsolicited questions to anyone, even a close friend, in person, alone, about such issues is inappropriate. Discussing such issues in front of a third party can bring pain to that person as well. I know we seem like a hardened lot of ardent GTD'ers who can deal with anything, but there are areas of our lives that are deeply personal.