It's complete when it's off your mind
I've been reading this thread for days.
supergtdman (and why is that your username, if you're such a skeptic?), I feel like you're looking for a way to get off the hook for not having your system to "mind like water" status. Insisting that it's not possible to do allows you to feel okay about not getting there.
I would try harder to get there.
Having 100% of your commitments captured is a deeply personal goal, and one only you can tell if you've reached. But when you hit it, you'll know you've hit it.
Right now, my apartment is a mess, my physical inbox is six inches tall, I have something like 40 messages that dropped through the cracks in my gmail inbox, and my NA lists are full to bursting.
Yet I'm sitting here having a cup of coffee, browsing the internet, and petting my cat. Why? Because my system is complete. All the things that mean something to me are where they should be. I know that even though I haven't fully gone through my inbox, everything that might mean something is in my inbox; it's not scattered in fifty different places. Even though I still have 40 e-mails to go through, none of them are going to bite. And moreover, I know that I've captured all the things I need to process, so even though they aren't processed, it's no biggie. They're where they need to be.
Do I have an NA that says, "Browse internet, sip coffee, and pet cat?" Of course I don't. But I *can* do that by virtue of the fact that everything I'm committed to is captured in some way that I know it's not going to blow up. And further, I also know that what I'm doing now fulfills goals for me on higher levels--to be aware of gtd, to be a good pet owner, to slow down and enjoy life.
Completion doesn't mean that anything that could ever possibly exist anywhere at any time has been handled. It means that everything that has meaning to you is handled in such a way that you can get it off your mind.
There's a podcast I love to listen to from an event David did a few years back at the Philadelphia Public Library. And in it, there's this moment where this guy (voice sounds in his twenties, maybe, but I don't know) is trying to nail David down on how detailed he should be in defining his projects. And there's this hysterical, but very BFO moment for me as David is going back and forth with this kid.
GUY: "How do I know when I've defined all my projects?"
DAVID: "When it's off your mind."
GUY: "But what if I—"
DAVID: "When it's off your mind."
GUY: "But you could always make it smaller"
DAVID: "You get it to the point that it's off your mind."
(paraphrased, but you get the idea.)
Your system is complete when all the things that mean thing A are where things that mean A belong. Your system is complete when everything is off your mind. The lake isn't placid because it has captured every possible trajectory of any possible size rock that could be thrown into it. It is placid because the nature of water allows it to interact with everything from a pebble to a boulder, and then go back to calm.
I've been reading this thread for days.
supergtdman (and why is that your username, if you're such a skeptic?), I feel like you're looking for a way to get off the hook for not having your system to "mind like water" status. Insisting that it's not possible to do allows you to feel okay about not getting there.
I would try harder to get there.
Having 100% of your commitments captured is a deeply personal goal, and one only you can tell if you've reached. But when you hit it, you'll know you've hit it.
Right now, my apartment is a mess, my physical inbox is six inches tall, I have something like 40 messages that dropped through the cracks in my gmail inbox, and my NA lists are full to bursting.
Yet I'm sitting here having a cup of coffee, browsing the internet, and petting my cat. Why? Because my system is complete. All the things that mean something to me are where they should be. I know that even though I haven't fully gone through my inbox, everything that might mean something is in my inbox; it's not scattered in fifty different places. Even though I still have 40 e-mails to go through, none of them are going to bite. And moreover, I know that I've captured all the things I need to process, so even though they aren't processed, it's no biggie. They're where they need to be.
Do I have an NA that says, "Browse internet, sip coffee, and pet cat?" Of course I don't. But I *can* do that by virtue of the fact that everything I'm committed to is captured in some way that I know it's not going to blow up. And further, I also know that what I'm doing now fulfills goals for me on higher levels--to be aware of gtd, to be a good pet owner, to slow down and enjoy life.
Completion doesn't mean that anything that could ever possibly exist anywhere at any time has been handled. It means that everything that has meaning to you is handled in such a way that you can get it off your mind.
There's a podcast I love to listen to from an event David did a few years back at the Philadelphia Public Library. And in it, there's this moment where this guy (voice sounds in his twenties, maybe, but I don't know) is trying to nail David down on how detailed he should be in defining his projects. And there's this hysterical, but very BFO moment for me as David is going back and forth with this kid.
GUY: "How do I know when I've defined all my projects?"
DAVID: "When it's off your mind."
GUY: "But what if I—"
DAVID: "When it's off your mind."
GUY: "But you could always make it smaller"
DAVID: "You get it to the point that it's off your mind."
(paraphrased, but you get the idea.)
Your system is complete when all the things that mean thing A are where things that mean A belong. Your system is complete when everything is off your mind. The lake isn't placid because it has captured every possible trajectory of any possible size rock that could be thrown into it. It is placid because the nature of water allows it to interact with everything from a pebble to a boulder, and then go back to calm.